Applied mindfulness for mental strength.

The Most Bang-For-Your-Buck Change You’ll Ever Make!

If you change just a few words in your vocabulary, it will change your entire life—starting today. Go on, I dare you to try it. This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. EVERYTHING WE humans create—every invention, every movement, every transformation—starts in one place: language. And not just language, because we could say animals have a form of language, but words. You see, words are what separate us from all other life forms. Animals react. We [...]

By |2025-07-16T13:26:04+00:001 Jul 2025|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , , |

Remove This Obstacle to Confidence

Sometimes a need for confidence is not about confidence at all, but about how you give your power away for all the wrong reasons. Here’s how you can build your own case for confidence. This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. SOMETIMES WE find ourselves not doing a thing that needs to be done, or that we would like to do, but are unable to act. In my last video I gave the example of the [...]

By |2025-07-16T13:40:37+00:006 May 2025|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , |

Confidence Is A Habit, Not A Feeling

Confidence is not a mood, belief or feeling. It’s an action of the mind that can be developed as a habit. Here's how. This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. Many people imagine that to feel confident you need to talk yourself into it. Like you’ve got to have some perfect internal conversation with yourself and feel perfectly confident in order to be and appear confident. You’ll have better luck trying to bring a conspiracy theorist [...]

By |2025-07-16T12:23:24+00:0014 Apr 2025|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , |

Should You Make A New Year’s Resolution?

New Year’s resolutions are so last century, right? I mean, who really even believes that they’ll follow through with anything, who believes that they’ll actually make that change? What if you’re going about it all wrong, this year and every year? This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. SO HERE we are, going into 2022. Given the two years we’ve had, and the direction that Covid seems to be taking, perhaps all you’ll have to do [...]

By |2025-02-22T14:40:06+00:001 Jan 2022|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , , |

10 Guidelines for Generating Meaningful Hope

Hope is critical in these tough times. Meaningful hope is not fantasy, it’s real. It’s also not random, it can be generated. Here are 10 guidelines for generating meaningful hope. This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. MY OWN experience of going through personal tough times, which I shared in a previous post, taught me that you have to end each day with hope. I also shared some examples of how I did this for myself, [...]

By |2025-02-22T14:50:29+00:009 Jun 2020|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|

How to Generate Hope in Tough Times

There are tough times ahead, and what we need is hope. Hope is not random, it can be generated. Experiencing my own tough times has taught me how—and so can you. This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. ONE THING you can say about living in South Africa is that we know how to survive through tough and uncertain times. In fact, if you’re alive and breathing in this country, you’ve probably never known a time [...]

By |2025-02-22T14:50:54+00:004 Jun 2020|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|

Equanimity: A Word for Our Time

Equanimity, along with compassion, is one of the most revered virtues in every spiritual and philosophical tradition. Yet it’s almost entirely absent from our corporate leadership lexicon. That says a lot about who and what and where we are. It’s also why equanimity is a word for our time. IF YOU learn to observe your own mind, as mindfulness teaches you to do, you’ll notice two particular things about your thoughts. Firstly, you’ll notice that your thoughts are always—literally, always*—about the future and the past. So you’re always [...]

By |2025-02-22T14:41:00+00:0030 Apr 2020|Categories: Life Hacks, Mental Strength|

Getting Motivated (5 of 5) | Agitation, Stress — Could You Care Less?

The world is in a mad rush. Everybody wants everything yesterday. Welcome to the state of agitation, the precursor to stress. It’s a bad neighbourhood, and not one you should care to hang around in.   IF YOU’VE ever been stuck in traffic when you’re running late for a meeting—and presuming you’re not a Zen monk—you’ll recognise the state of agitation. It’s that state when you’re pushing hard against life to make things happen within a certain time, or in a certain way, and life is having none of [...]

Getting Motivated (4 of 5) | Making Monday Great Again!

People experience the state of flow twice as often at work than they do at home. So, what’s the big deal about Friday? Find out how work is good for you, and make Monday, yes Monday, your best friend! IT’S ALWAYS been fashionable—and in many cases it’s probably true—to see work as a grudge activity. The words we use say it all. The grindstone. The salt mines. Sigh, you do it because you have to. And so on. Plus, it’s normal and natural to complain about your boss in [...]

By |2025-03-12T14:26:42+00:0024 Oct 2019|Categories: Leadership, Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , |

Getting Motivated (3 of 5) | Getting Through the Dip

One thing you can know for sure about getting motivated: when you’re starting out with any activity, you almost never feel like it. Sadly, getting through the dip is the only way. Enter the state of animation. YOU KNOW that positive feeling you get when you’re in the flow state? Or that sense of accomplishment when you’ve finished a task? We all want that feeling, right? Well, guess what? There’s no other way to achieve it than to simply get stuck in. Perform the activity. Do the task. Duh! [...]

By |2025-03-12T14:27:18+00:0022 Oct 2019|Categories: Leadership, Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , |
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