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Getting Motivated (2 of 5) | It’s Not About Your Feelings

You don’t have to wait for your feelings to come right before you can get motivated. You can choose your motivational state and act to bring it about. Your feelings will follow. WHEN YOU’RE weary, as the song goes, or feeling small—or feeling down—you tend to focus on, well, your feelings. You try to nurse them into a better shape. You need to feel better, you tell yourself, in order to get motivated, to get going. Similarly, when you’re struggling to get going on a Monday—or to drag yourself [...]

By |2025-03-12T14:27:10+00:0021 Oct 2019|Categories: Leadership, Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , |

Getting Motivated (1 of 5) | The Five Motivational States

Getting motivated, and knowing how to get people motivated, is both art and science. The good news is, you don’t have to become a motivational speaker to do it. You just have to understand these five motivational states. This post is also available as a YouTube video (click here). Or jump to the audio version. IN THE days before actual coaching, the only option we had for getting motivated were those dreaded motivational speakers. They whooped onto the stage and spewed out platitudes like, “Today is [...]

By |2025-03-12T14:50:36+00:0014 Oct 2019|Categories: Leadership, Life Hacks, Mental Strength|Tags: , , |

Personal Power: It’s With You, Yes, You

Each one of us has the personal power to cause positive change. That power resides not in the collective, but in the individual. That means you. Yes, you. You have the power. Not them.  "MEN GO crazy in congregations, they only get better one by one." That's a line out of a song — the song All This Time, by Sting. I've used it as a quote on my email signature for some time. Recently, one of my clients asked me what I meant by including it. It refers to [...]

By |2025-02-22T14:51:46+00:005 Jul 2018|Categories: Life Hacks|

The Enneagram: Sharpest Tool In The Personality Profiling Shed?

When it comes to profiling people’s personalities, the enneagram is probably the sharpest tool in the shed. Correctly debriefed, it can provide the key for people to free up their behavioural choices and transform their lives. I FIRST encountered the enneagram many years ago. I was browsing in a bookstore while waiting for my son to finish his ice hockey practice. The name “enneagram” itself, and the disk with its colours and lines, looked and felt strangely familiar, yet I knew nothing about it. I had trained to deliver [...]

By |2025-02-22T14:53:13+00:0031 Jan 2018|Categories: Leadership, Life Hacks|Tags: , , |
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