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WHAT IS COACHING

Unlock Your Potential To Live Your Best Life!

Coaching supports you to recognise the two conversations that go on – and on – inside you. There’s the one about what you really want, and the other about why you can’t have it. Coaching will support you to make empowered choices about which one to live your life by. By learning to manage these conversations better, you unlock your potential and have your best chance of living the life you know you deserve.

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EVERY ONE of us has a dream, a goal, a passion, a lifestyle that we want to pursue. Set against that we have beliefs that limit us. You might want to start your own business, but believe deep down that you don’t have the skills, or can’t afford the risk. Getting fit, getting educated, finding the right relationship partner. In all of these areas there is something that you would most likely have if you could and you were honest with yourself. Weighing heavily on anyone is the belief that it’s too late, that you’re not good enough, that life doesn’t work like that, and so on. Coaching supports you to recognise these two conversations as they exist inside you and to make empowered choices about which one to live your life by.

Unprecedented challenges—and opportunities

Modern society presents people with unprecedented challenges and opportunities. There is the opportunity to create your own path and fulfil your destiny. The flipside of this coin is the challenge to define yourself without the strong social reference points of religion, job, social class that past generations relied upon.

There is the opportunity that technology presents for unprecedented personal marketing, communication and commercial leverage. With this comes the challenge of managing your time and staying abreast of developments.

You can have the life you dream of or you can have your reasons why not, but you can’t have both. A coach can set you on the path to self-sufficiency so that you achieve the life you know you deserve.

There are unprecedented opportunities for education and wealth creation. This presents the challenge of managing the rate of change by which knowledge and wealth creation strategies become obsolete as quickly as they are learned.

Self-management and life management are needed in a way that they were not needed before, and coaching steps into this space. Coaching is a way of becoming self-sufficient in a world where self-sufficiency has taken on a whole new meaning.

The principles and practices of self-sufficiency that coaching delivers are relevant to all areas of life, including the corporate work space, the small, privately-owned business space and in people’s personal lives.

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HOW IT WORKS

KEY ELEMENTS

THE EXACT nature of each coaching process will vary according to your own requirements and personal learning style. Here are some key elements:

  • It’s important that you commit to the required number of sessions for each phase at a regular time. Naturally we’ll deal with exceptions as they arise, however you’ll discover that commitment, and being able to make plans and stick to them, is a vital part of the process.

  • You’ll be asked to set definable, measurable goals for the coaching cycle. You don’t have to do that before you approach me, we’ll do it in partnership as part of the kick-off process.  During each session we’ll design the best next steps to achieve those goals.

  • In addition to designing best next steps, I’ll lead a process of asking relevant and powerful questions that expose and break down mental and emotional blocks and barriers to achieving the stated goals.

  • Throughout the process, in parallel to your own objectives for each session, I will introduce models or “distinctions”. These are presented in a way, and in an order, that will enable you to build a big-picture awareness of how we human beings create our reality, and what you can do to leverage that awareness.

  • You will be asked to turn your awareness into practices that can become habits. These new habits will feed back into your way of being until you become naturally enthused, energised, inspired and confident.

  • Your full engagement will enable you to discover and develop a new identity that will naturally enthuse and empower you and that plays to your strengths. This will emerge, no matter what has happened in the past, no matter what your current circumstances, no matter what your age.

  • At the end of the process we will use behavioural and other hard evidence to assess the level of achievement of your goals. Based on this, we will co-create on any forwarding actions that will support you to continue the growth path into the future.

STARTER PACKS

You may want to kick things off with a personal assessment.

The Enneagram Report and Debrief is a great way to see where you’re at and decide what you need to work on and whether coaching would be right for you. It’s also relevant if you’re already engaged in a process and you just want to get a clearer picture of the material—your own personality—that you’re working with. There are no obligations.

Or you may feel that what you need is not the full coaching program, yet still more than just a kick in the pants. In that case, the Potentiate Package is just for you.

If it’s a full coaching program you’re after, then continue past this section. 

Enneagram (Five Lens) Report plus One-on-one Debrief

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This Enneagram Report and Debrief is probably the most in-depth and multidimensional personality profile report on the market. It offers feedback on your personality through five lenses. Expertly debriefed in person by Neil, it can reveal things about you that a psychologist or coach would take months to figure out. If they ever did. This will give you a very clear idea of what your strengths and areas for development are.

What you’ll get:

  • 43-page Personal Feedback Report
  • 90-minute Personal Debrief
  • Five Lens All-In-One Graphic

Yes, I’m keen, take me there!

Enneagram Report + Debrief + 3 Coaching Sessions

The Potentiate Package is an expanded version of the Enneagram Report plus One-on-One Debrief.

It includes three follow-up one-on-one coaching sessions (at a fraction of the normal rate) to more deeply interpret and understand the report and make key decisions on how to apply the learning in a purposeful manner.

What you’ll get:

  • 43-page Personal Feedback Report
  • 90-minute Personal Debrief
  • Five Lens All-In-One Graphic
  • Three follow-up coaching sessions

Yes, I’m keen, take me there!

WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

What's wrong with me?

I need to know what my issues are!

Awareness is the key!

When you know the problem, the answer presents itself. Create the clarity you need with the Enneagram Report and Debrief.

I need a kick in the pants!

I don't want coaching, but could use a kickstart!

Potentiate Yourself!

The Potentiate Package is the ideal solution if you’re at a crossroads and need a little direction!

It's man versus world!

I'm worried I'll never reach my potential!

YOU'RE NOT ALONE!

You’re not alone, and your friends are not helping.
Have a look at your options.

It's tough at the top!

It's a dog-eat-dog world - and I'm all alone!

THE BEST SPORTSPEOPLE HAVE COACHES!

The margins of success get smaller, the higher you climb.
Consider your executive coaching options today!

My staff will be the end of me!

I'm tearing my hair out with frustration!

TEAM PERFORMANCE CAN BE LEARNED!

They don’t teach us how to get along, but it’s never too late to start!
Find out about team coaching.

Stress is killing me!

I need to learn to manage myself better!

BE PRESENT!

Being present and peaceful is easier said than done!
Have a look at Practical Mindfulness.

TESTIMONIALS

Winning all the top 2007 PRISM Awards for PR Excellence was the final exclamation point and validation of the coaching work that Neil had done with me some months earlier – plus my company enjoyed its best year ever in revenue terms.

Marcus Brewster, CEO, Marcus Brewster Publicity

I believe in myself more and have more confidence as a direct result of coaching with Neil. I would recommend the process for anyone looking to achieve a similar goal. It’s made a big difference to my life and career.

Neil Naidoo, Wesbank Auto

Coaching with Neil has added enormous value in terms of my career as an entrepreneur and consultant. My ability to evaluate opportunities and make good decisions is better than ever—plus I have more time with my family!

James Martin, Vantage Holdings

I found the interventions massively beneficial and my level of awareness in particular is at an all time high. The benefits of this and the visible impact on my business and personal life are immense.

Coll Macdonald, Invent Hospitality

Coaching with Neil was tough, but it helped me to focus on what I want out of situations and people, at home and at work. Also, to create definable steps towards the lifestyle I desire and the person I aspire to be.

Dirk Wilson, Entrepreneur
The impact on my personal and work-life has been amazing. Taking control of what happens to me has changed me from a victim into a successful leader at work and a happier being with success in all areas of my life.
Marpie Betts

Stimulating, awakening, cutting to your inner, hidden self. Rewarding, very worthwhile, very necessary. The process is important to experience if you are truly looking to better yourself.

Athol McLean, Chiropractor

I attended [the Authentic Success Program] looking for answers to improve my life. I leave knowing that I held the answers all the time, I just have to apply a few simple principles in order to activate them.

Guy Johnstone, Hotelier

Neil was brilliant at presenting [the Authentic Success Program] and supported us through the process. I am confident that it will send me on the life path I have been seeking for so long.

Jeremy Kropman, Engineer

If you think you don’t need “authentic success” you are ready for this program. It will open up a new world of possibility you never knew existed. I would recommend it for anybody looking to improve their life.

John Mullins, Coach

The experience opens one’s eyes to the possibility of taking control of one’s future – not being a rudderless ship but rather one that is on course in the sea of life. I’m sure it will make a difference for others too.

Grant Back, Pilot

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